My good friend and colleague, Peter Vermeulen, and I have been discussing a certain topic lately, and that is something called Theory of Own Mind. In the field of neuro-differences, we have an over-focus on Theory of Mind which refers to our ability to think about how other people are feeling, thinking, etc. However, what we DON’T do enough of is nurturing Theory of Own Mind and helping our clients to discover more about themselves—to understand their own bodies, feelings, experiences and to learn what it is that they need to successfully flourish and thrive.
This means increasing the use of supports that help a person to discover and understand more about themselves, including:
- understand their own strengths & interests
- understand what they need to feel safe
- understand their own inner interoceptive experiences
- understand their own emotions
- understand their uniqueness and see all of the value that they have to offer the world

